Sunday, December 3, 2023

Finding Lost Things

"I can't find it! I can't find it!"  That was me, at two-years old, frantically looking for a lost Christmas toy amongst the chaos.  I know this because it's recorded on the single home video I have of my childhood. And ever since, the narrative over my life has been that I am not good at finding things. 

When I can't find something, I become pretty frantic, like that little girl in the video.  Sometimes I panic.  Sometimes I cry. Often, I give up after awhile. 

Or, at least I used to be like this. 

You see, after having three children and acquiring a lot of small little toys and even smaller pieces to those toys, I had to learn really quick that it was not physically possible for me to keep track of every Lego, Barbie shoe, and Polly Pocket that came into this house. 

When my girls started getting toys like these, and they'd immediately lose a Barbie shoe, their emotions were BIG. They were devastated a part of the whole was gone, and often had big emotions about the loss. 

As their mom, I would become frustrated they lost the toys, but even more sad for their broken little hearts.  I felt helpless, knowing finding lost things was not a strength of mine.  So, I started to pray a prayer every time they lost something.

"Jesus, I know that you know exactly where _________ is.  So please show me what only you can see.  We always give you all the glory no matter what, but I can't wait to praise you when we find it.  Amen."

And time and time again, testimony after testimony, Jesus has helped us find the lost things.

Once, the girls lost a yellow Barbie shoe in the backyard during autumn.  Yellow and orange leaves littered the yard.  And as the girls cried and cried about their new toy being partial without both shoes, I prayed.  Sure enough, the shoe was found under a leaf!

Once, a Lego piece fell off our counter and bounced on the floor and up under the lip of our cupboard, into the tiniest little hole between the molding and the cupboard door. Jordan searched for a good long while, remembered to pray our prayer, and started pulling apart the cabinet.  Lo and behold, the Lego was found!

Another time, my friend called me in a panic that she couldn't find her daughter's favorite stuffed animal to get her down for a nap. I prayed with her over the phone, she took a deep breath, and soon found what she was looking for. 

Recently, at a women's retreat, our leader was distraught over losing a piece of our craft that was vital to the whole project.  Knowing the One who could help, I pulled her aside to pray with her my special prayer.  As I walked away, I had a sense the lost items were near some folders. So I told her to look where she was storing the folders.  Several hours later, she came to me on the beach to tell me the items were found inside the lid of a box the folders came in!  Too good to make up :) 

Perhaps my favorite story is when my youngest daughter lost her little Bluey toys.  They were new, of course. When she misplaced them, there were alligator tears.  We searched everywhere we could think of two or three times.  Days would pass, and we'd search some more.  One morning, my oldest daughter woke up and told us she dreamt the toys were in something red.  We searched in our red wagon and tricycle, to no avail.  Weeks went by and I was hanging up their winter coats for the season.  Inside Ellie's red puffy winter coat pocket were the Bluey toys.  "Mommy!  They were in something red, just like my dream!" Natalie exclaimed.  We were astonished.

And just the other day, my daughter lost a little green rock she found in the yard when one of her siblings knocked it out of her hand.  I kept raking as I watched her struggle to find it, knowing she knew the protocol for finding lost things.  After awhile, I went over to her and asked if she prayed about it yet.  "No, Mommy.  Will you help me?"  So we prayed to Jesus, the One who sees everything, to help us find the rock.  After a few more minutes of searching in the grass, my eyes went right to it, and I knew it was the right one. 

Ok, you get the point.  Every time I pray for Jesus to help me find something lost, He shows up.  Sometimes right away.  Sometimes after a few hours.  Sometimes after a few weeks.  Every time, He shows up. 

Have you ever lost something and not been able to find it? 

How important was it to you? Was it an expensive piece of jewelry or maybe even some cold hard cash? Was it sentimental to you? What if it was seemingly insignificant to the rest of the world but very important to you? 

Every time my kids lose something I use it as a lesson to teach them about how much their Savior loves them.  If Jesus cares to bring our eyes to the most insignificant things like little rocks and lost Barbie shoes, how much more does He care about your bigger details?! And how much more does He want to help us fix our eyes on Him?!

Jesus says in Matthew 10:29-31, "Are not two sparrows sold for a cent? And yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father.  But the very hairs of your head are all numbered.  So do not fear; you are more valuable than many sparrows."

This lesson is simple but profound, isn't it?  When you're struggling with making a decision, or feeling seen, or being heard, how comforting is it to know the God who sees it all is watching over every single detail.  

He's not just God of Creation; He's the God of you.  And you very much matter to Him.  

So when I pray for the lost things to be found, I know He's just using those little moments to strengthen my faith in Him for when I need it in the big moments.

He wants to do this for you.  He already does.  I think my role in finding these lost things is both faith and action.  I have the faith He will show me, and I physically use my eyes to look.  Once I pray, I get to work looking.  

I wonder what it is you are praying for right now, that you need to start looking for?

May the lost things be found, and may your faith be strengthened in the process. 

Ellie's green rock found in the grass



Sunday, October 29, 2023

Off the Hurt and On to Praise

 

Last night in church, we were singing a song about remember our Redeemer.  The lyrics when like this:  

    "Christ Redeemer, we remember, He has won the war!"

It struck a chord in my heart.  I've recently been studying Psalm 77, a powerful song of Asaph, in which the speaker cries out to God in the middle of the night, wondering where the relief is from the suffering being experienced.

At first glance, it almost seems as if the speaker is feeling abandoned by God.  Or even worse, God is there, but the speaker refuses to be comforted by God.

The psalm is written post-kingdom collapse and exile.  The Israelites have lost everything.  Families separated.  Families demolished.  All familiarity gone.  They are in a state of capital T Trauma.  That's the state-of-mind the psalmist is writing from. 

The first few verses are evident of a tired, weary soul, crying out to God but feeling no comfort or release from the circumstances.

But amidst the sleeplessness and crying out, the psalmist is choosing to do something really powerful.

He is remembering and considering the days of old, of the happier, more stable times.

His first conclusion seems to be the God of ancient days has changed somehow.  How could the same God who brought them out of Egypt allow their exile?

But everything the psalmist knows about God says quite otherwise.  He knows God is unchangeable.  He knows the promises God gave to his ancestors.  He knows the history.

In verse 11, the psalmist's remembering actually begins to bring JOY and PEACE back into his soul.

His thoughts are shifted off the hurt and on to the glory and power of a living God.

It's a movement from complaint to praise.

Please don't miss this.

The psalmist had to choose this change in his thinking.  He needed a renewed perspective in the pit of despair.  I actually believe God moved in his spirit during these prayers to help shift his perspective!

Remembrance is a beautiful gift we have the ability to use, isn't it? God has given us minds to literally store memories to look back on when we need comfort, healing, and encouragement.

I want to acknowledge that memories are not always joyful.  Some are quite traumatic, as the psalmist here remembers and knows well.  But there was a shift in his heart towards praising God for the good things, despite the traumatic things.

I've been doing a lot of "memory work" myself this year... going back into my past to heal some emotions attached to difficult memories.  The act of remembering like this takes hard work, dedication, and a lot of showing up for myself and in my counselor's office.  I don't do it alone; I am surrounded by a stable, healthy community to hold me up in this season of remembering and healing. (Praise!!)

The more I shift off the hurt and on to praise, I find the hand of the Lord in all of it.  It's like my vision clears and I can see what I could not see before.  He has always been my Shelter, my Provider, my Protector, my Counselor, and my Healer.

I guess what I want to leave you with today is a challenge for you to look for and remember the goodness, glory, and power of God in your life, even in the traumatic events.

God has not changed from the days when He led the Israelites through the sea and through the wilderness.  The waters still see Him and move at His beck and call, and the deeps still tremble.

And more often than not, God's way is "in the sea" and His paths are "in the mighty waters."  And in those deeps, sometimes it feels like He's not there, like His "footprints may not be known."

But rest assured, He was there then, He is here now, and He will be there for all that is to come.

This brings me great comfort in my distress, and courage for what I have not endured yet.  Praise Him from whom all blessings flow.  Praise Him. Praise Him. Praise Him!

May remembering your Redeemer bless you too, dear friend.

*I use the NASB if you'd like to read the psalm in the same translation for verses I've referenced.

Wednesday, March 8, 2023

The Suspension Bridge

    You know those suspension bridges that are built with some rope and very questionable planks and stretch across a deep gully? They're usually suspended a thousand feet in the air and as you walk over them, they move and shake beneath your feet with every move? They're also usually poorly maintained, so often missing planks along the way, causing you to bravely hop over the missing pieces and forge to the other side.

    There are three types of people who encounter these types of bridges in the rainforests and distant mountain trails.  The first kind of person bravely steps out onto that bridge, eyes ahead on the other side, and enjoys the thrill of danger (you people need your heads examined!).  The second kind of person lingers for a few minutes, calculates the risk, and eventually caves to the peer pressure of the group and starts walking (whimpering along the way).  Then there's the third person.  This one sees the risk, fear takes over, and she never moves. She lets everyone go on ahead without her, perfectly content on solid ground.

    I'll give you a chance to guess which group I all into. Ok, time's up.

    Yeah, I hate those kinds of bridges.  They freak me out of my ever-loving mind.  I've come across them in my travels over the years, and contentedly let the others I'm with go ahead.  "I'll wait here, " I say.  "You guys have fun." And I really mean it. 

    I'm the third type of person.  I've never willingly walked across a bridge like that.

    At the beginning of this year, God gave me a vision of me standing out in the middle of a bridge just like the one I described.  I'm standing in the very center of such a bridge, as it wobbles and moves all around me, but the strange part is, I don't shake at all.  I just stand there, perfectly content to stay in the middle place of doom.  Normally people do not linger on such bridges.  They're dangerous and scary (I think we've established that, so I promise I'll move on).  These people are smart.  They keep walking to get to the other side.  

    I don't know how I got to this place in the middle, but there I stand.  And I've not been given permission to cross to the other side, nor to return back to where I came from.

    I think there are a few reasons I'm standing in this middle place, and I want to share those reasons with you tonight.  Maybe you're also standing in the middle of a shaky bridge.

    The first thing God has shared with me about this vision is His plan for how He got me out there in the first place.  This plan goes farther back in time that I would have imagined on my own.  He was knitting together a story in my life before I even realized it, to put me on this bridge for such a time as this.  Meanwhile, I was developing relationships, deepening my faith, having babies, repenting of my sins, getting counseling, traveling, visiting loved ones, burying loved ones, and working towards a masters degree.  It's been a full few years.  And while I was doing all this, God was working in all those details, getting me ready to stand on this bridge.

    So you see, it's no surprise to God that I'm standing there.  He's been planning my position there for quite some time.

    The second thing God has shared with me is the purpose for standing there.  You see, sometimes others need to see that someone else went before them and lived to see another day, to find the courage themselves to also step out into the scary unknown.  The purpose for me being there has nothing to do with me, but those who are on the opposites sides, needing to find the courage to cross.  Maybe they're thinking, "If she can cross, so can I."

    The last thing God told me about this middle-place assignment I'm in is my posture on the bridge.  As I'm standing there, both of my arms are extended wide open to either side.  Who needs to see my hands and take a hold of one of them, to find the courage to cross the bridge?  A second part of my posture has to do with my lack of holding on to anything.  I'm not grasping for the railing, and I'm certainly not grasping for thin air out of fear I might fall.  I'm simply not moving.  I'm sure about my posture, purpose, and the plan for why I'm there.  No need to tremble.

    If you're standing on either side of this gully, looking at me standing out on this bridge, I want you to know a few things.

    You can do it.  You can get over your fear, and take a step forward.  There's healing on the other side.  I promise.  It won't be easy..  You might shake a lot on that bridge as you cross.  But you'll feel so good to reach the other side when you did.  And also, you can always turn around and go back to where you came from if you want to, although you won't be the same person anymore, so be aware of that.  Once you've seen the other side, your eyes will be open to a whole side of the gully you never explored before.

    Secondly, if you need help, I'm standing there waiting.  Let me help.  I want to.

    And if you think this is all ridiculous and you'd never meet me out there if your life depended on it, I want you to remember you're a child of God who sees all, knows all, and created all.  Every single detail of your life is known to Him.  He's working out your details, even in this moment.  And if you see me on this bridge, it's possible He brought you into my life for a reason.  Because you need to grab one of my hands and let me help you get to the other side?  Or maybe you need to linger in the middle with me a little bit.  That's ok, too.  I'm comfortable (although a little lonely) out here.  It makes no sense why I am so ok with being out here, but I have a deep peace in this place.

    And I'll be here to pray for you, and point you back to the One who created you, loves you, and wants you to make it to the other side, and back again, in one piece.  Safe and sound.

    He never calls us out into the deep to drown us, but to grow us, to make us stronger, and help us return to our safe ground again better than when we left it.

"Those from among you will rebuild the ancient ruins;
You will raise up the age-old foundations;
And you will be called the repairer of the breach,
The restorer of the streets in which to dwell." - Isaiah 52:18 (emphasis mine)



    
    
Alaska, 2018 with my 3 year-old daughter.
We've been practicing for this posture longer than I ever imagined.


Tuesday, April 13, 2021

Wisdom from the kitchen sink.

 My kitchen sink has become my worship altar.  

There’s a soft mat in front of it I like to stand on in the mornings.  I blast “Jireh” by Maverick City Music (go listen now if you haven’t yet!) on our Google Home speaker, and pour my heart out to God every morning.  Often, Leeland comes over to me asking to be picked up, puts his head on my shoulder, and lifts his little hand in the air.  It’s like worship for him is a natural instinct, and it gets me in my feels every. time.


We are one month in to a four-month deployment with my husband serving overseas.  From experience, I know that deployments bring a lot of challenge and adjustment.  Deployments bring me to the very end of myself, to be quite honest.  Which apparently is right where I need to be. 


Right as this deployment started, God reminded me that He’s been preparing Jordan and I for this kind of thing since the very beginning of our relationship.  In fact, He specifically pointed out the times He’s separated us for exactly four months.  During the first year of our relationship, Jordan studied “abroad” in Memphis for a semester.  Four months.  A couple years later, he worked as a musician on a cruise ship for a summer.  For four months.  He spent a couple summers working on ships like that actually.  Then, four months into our marriage, Jordan left for basic training for the Air Force.  We were apart only 2 months then, but being newlyweds it sure felt much longer! 


What God spoke to me was simple.  


You were made for this.  I’ve actually been preparing you for awhile now.


But friends, if I’m being honest… there are many minutes of every day I truly don’t feel made for any of this.  I don’t have the strength, or the patience, or the endurance to parent these three beautiful little people all on my own.  


In your weakness, I am strong, Amy. 


Notable mention goes out to the many many friends and family members who have been the hands and feet of Jesus this past month.  I’ve had friends offer to watch the kids so I can run to COSTCO, come over and mow the lawn, kill poor birds that got stuck in a trap in my garage (so sad!), send me DoorDash for dinner, bring lunch over and hang out on a Saturday before church, drop off wine and soup and say “I can’t fix it, but here” (HA!)… the list goes on!  I truly feel every offer as a touch from God.  I am so grateful.


Like I said, I am at the end of myself. Holy Spirit, lead me.  I’m nothing without You! 


One month down, three to go. What else do you have for me, Lord? I know You're not done with me, yet.


I’ll just keep washing dishes and worshiping with my son, and wait on the Lord.


"He is your praise and He is your God, who has done these great and awesome things for you which your eyes have seen."- Deuteronomy 10:21




Monday, October 28, 2019

Target Run and Done.

**I'm currently taking a History of the Christian Movement course that required me to spend some time immersed in my local culture and connect what I observed to how the gospel can best reach the kind of culture I observed.  Naturally, I chose Target.  I thought it would be fun to share what I wrote, since I had fun writing it :) Nothing profound here, just fun!

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As a busy mama, I decided to kill two birds with one stone with this assignment.  I went to Target.  I had to pick up a few things anyways, so I thought it was appropriate I also observed what was around me.  I started with the parking lot, and moved my way through the store slowly, making an effort to look around me at things I normally would not notice if I was only there to shop and if I had my children with me.  Just for reference, this Target is located in the center of my city.  Our demographic in Hampton, VA is mixed, but the majority of the population is African-American. 

Target is a one-stop-shop for everything someone might need.  What I have noticed more recently is the “drive-up” curbside pickup services offered now.  I can order my items on the Target app on my phone, tell the app when I’m on my way, park in a designated parking spot, and someone magically comes out of the store to deliver my goods.  The transition our culture has made in the name of convenience is quite remarkable.  If driving to the store and sitting in your car is not convenient enough, Target will also deliver your groceries right to your door within hours.  How lazy can we be?

Once inside the store, the marketing strategies attract a culture that never pays full price.  Offers for new discounts with their app (again with the app!), dollar bins right at the entrance, and a plethora of BOGO signs around the store suggest America is always looking for a deal.  From my perspective as a mother, this store offers convenience with their shopping carts designed for toddlers, Starbucks, and wide-open clean aisles to maneuver through.  They have everything I need, from eggs to printer paper to a new sweater (yes, I bought them all on this particular trip).  Our culture as reflected Target is that we like convenience, we like cheap goods, and we like our shopping experiences to be just that: an experience.  The employees were even wearing shirts asking if I’d like a “more rewarding Target run?”  The millennial culture especially values experiences over goods, so it is important for stores to appeal to this generation.  Personally, I visit Target to get out of the house.  But it means I can get a coffee, grab a $1 bag of popcorn to satisfy my children, and probably find everything I need all at once. 

The gospel can speak to this kind of culture by being quick and accessible.  This culture needs an easy-to-understand message that serves them first.  This is how they will be hooked.  Do not ask for money for the church (they’ll ask if they can get 5% back on their tithe).  Do not ask them to compromise their “truth” (for the record, Target also endorses gender-neutral restrooms in some states).  Just lure them in with a message that they are loved, and do not owe you anything.  The gospel will be attractive to this kind of culture when it is presented as an experience, but only one they can journal about in their cute new notebook from aisle 16. 

Sunday, August 25, 2019

Leeland: land; open pasture; field; promise fulfilled.


Several years ago, I wrote a couple blog posts about a story in the Bible about the prophet Jeremiah buying a field.  You can find those posts here and here  God spoke to me in that season about a promise He was going to fulfill in our lives, but I wasn’t going to fully understand or see the fulfillment of that promise without first offering a sacrifice.

Long story short, this promise was about our future as a family.  At the time, we were trying to get pregnant with our first child (we had actually miscarried our first pregnancy and were trying for a second pregnancy).  When we finally did become pregnant, we were asked by some friends what our baby names were.  Natalie if the baby was a girl, and Leeland if a boy.  We already knew Natalie means “born on Christmas day” and were shocked to discover Leeland means “land; open pasture; field.” 

Well, when we had Natalie, we were sure we’d have at least one more baby… our Leeland. 

When we became pregnant a second time, we decided not to find out the gender, to the chagrin of many friends and family!

Out came… Eloise.

I’ll be honest… two babies two and under threw me for a loop, and I wasn’t sure for a long time whether or not I wanted to try for a third.

I’ll be even more honest here… my main concern was whether or not we could fit three children in our vehicle.  What a silly reason!  Jordan eased that fear right away by telling me we could just spend a couple hundred dollars on the right car seats that would fit, rather than buy a whole new vehicle!  Brilliant!  And certainly not a reason to stand in the way of God’s promises!

After Ellie turned 1, we knew it was time to try for a third, in God’s perfect timing.

On October 13th, 2018, I went to church with a broken heart.  I had gotten my cycle and was so disappointed we weren’t pregnant yet.  God really ministered to my heart that night.  He has perfect timing… He sees me.  He has a promise to fulfill.

Exactly one month later, on November 13th, I found out I was pregnant! I love how God uses numbers in my life.  It’s like it’s His way of saying, “there are no coincidences… I have control of every detail. Wink wink.”

A couple weeks before our ultrasound to find out the baby’s gender, we were singing worship in church, and I noticed the projection screen.  The images were all of aerial shots of FIELDS!  And we were singing a song that’s been recorded by the Christian band… you guessed it… LEELAND.  I leaned over to my friend next to me who knows our story well, and she immediately knew what I was thinking.  This new baby inside of me was our boy… our Leeland.

On July 22nd, 2019, our beautiful son Leeland Chase was born.  Our promise fulfilled.

But there’s more to this story!

Since about January of this year, Jordan and I decided to pursue finding an investment rental property in Alaska.  Jordan took on most of the work, as I supported him and helped make decisions when he needed my input. 

When June came around and he still hadn’t found a property, he began to feel a bit discouraged.  On our way to a church leader’s meeting, he expressed his doubts and felt maybe God’s timing was further out than what we thought for this property.  Little did we know, our meeting that night was going to give us the opportunity to sit with close friends and share our hearts about this topic and pray for each other. 

That week, Jordan and our realtor found a property he was ready to pursue!  We did look quite a bit into it, and even put in an offer, but ultimately, backed out of that particular property for several reasons.  However, just about a day or two later, Jordan found a duplex hidden away in a town outside of Anchorage where our close friends and property managers live.  And here we are now, new owners of this duplex in Wasilla, AK.  We officially closed on the property in mid-August.

Now, remember what I told you about Leeland’s name meaning “field,” and the prophecy the Lord gave us about “buying a field”? 

The week we closed on the property, our friend texted us this message:

“Hello friends J So I’ve been thinking about something and wanted to share a thought with you that’s kind of been marinating in my heart as I pray for you guys.  So I’m remembering the word that the Lord gave Amy for Leeland so many years ago ;) Part of the promise was found in scripture and the Lord’s encouragement to Jeremiah to go and buy a field.  So as I’ve been praying for you and the property you just purchased, I could not help but connect the fact that Leeland is now here in your arms and you have purchased a field.  Well, maybe not a field but do you see what I’m saying?!?  Do you see how God is leading your hearts?! God is so good and He is so faithful!  And I love watching you two do life!”

HOW had we not put this together ourselves?!  Maybe because we did just have a baby and have been in a bit of a fog…

But her message gave us CHILLS. 

Our Leeland’s arrival at the same time we purchase a property in Alaska…

God told Jeremiah to buy a field in the land He was about to exile the Israelites from, as a sign of His promise that He would one day bring them back to that land.

And maybe this is a stretch (please sense my humor), I have always felt a little “exiled” from Alaska when the Air Force moved us away.  But now we have purchased our “field” as a sign of God’s promise and the dreams in our hearts to one day return to the “promised land” of our dreams! 

It’s been hard for me to get this story put into words… and because of that, I’ve hesitated to share it at all.  I get that this all may seem way out in left field (whoops! No pun intended J), and it may seem like I’m really reaching for something here, but I can’t deny the goodness and the glory of the Lord God. 

And you certainly can’t deny my son who is snuggled in his swing snoozing away, or the keys in our hands for this new property.

“I would have lost heart had I not believed I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.” –Psalm 27:13

Amen!

Our new rental property in Wasilla, AK!


Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Four baptisms in one summer...


Did you know the Bible talks about four different baptisms?  Most likely, if you’ve been breathing on this earth for any amount of time, you’ve heard of a baptism.  And most likely, the only kind of baptism that you’re thinking of involves someone being immersed in water.  Or, if you’re from a Catholic background, perhaps you’re thinking of infant baptism where water is sprinkled on the baby’s head by a priest.

The other night, our pastor preached about baptisms again, but this time, God revealed something about my past that I had never realized before.  One of the things I appreciate about Pastor Fred (www.citylifeva.com) is that several times a year, he will preach about topics he has already addressed.  He always brings fresh wisdom to these sermons, so even if you’ve been around City Life Church for a while, tune in.  There’s usually something new being shared you haven’t heard before.

To listen to his sermon, click here: Holy Spirit Series- Pentecost Part One

I won’t even try to summarize his sermon from that night, but I will offer this image from his slides, and what the Holy Spirit revealed to me as I was sitting in my seat.




The word “baptism” literally means to be “immersed.” 

Baptism in Water: being immersed in water, this baptism is a symbol of sin washing away, coming up made new and making a public declaration of your commitment to the Lord. (P.S. if you’ve ever seen a child choose to be baptized, and share their reasons for it, bring your tissues. There is something so precious about a child who has chosen this huge step of faith!)

Baptism into the Body of Christ: being immersed into a church body is one of the expectations God places on us as Christians.

Baptism of Fire: quite literally, being immersed in a season of suffering.

Baptism with the Holy Spirit: listen to PF’s sermon J ultimately, this baptism means to be immersed in the Holy Spirit, empowered by the Holy Spirit to share the gospel with the world.

I honestly had never heard of the latter three baptisms on that list until coming to City Life Church in 2013.  In a way, I’ve been a little upset about that!  How had I attended churches for almost ten years before really hearing what Scripture has to say about baptism?!

Over the years, I’ve actually written graduate papers about baptism of the Holy Spirit, and been listening to PF’s sermons on baptisms.  So when he started preaching the other night, I settled into my seat, eager to learn something new.

And when this slide came onto the projection screen, I heard (well, felt… I don’t really heard the audible voice of God) the Holy Spirit whisper to me:

You experienced all four of these baptisms within just weeks of each other in the summer of 2014.

And I immediately knew what He was talking about.

In the summer of 2014, we had been attending City Life Church for about 8 months. 

On June 1st, we were getting ready to head up to our Williamsburg campus (then held at a YMCA) to participate in their water baptism.  Jordan and I had never been baptized as believers.  We both had been baptized as infants in the Catholic Church, and had prayed over the years about whether or not being baptized as adult believers was really “necessary.”  So on this day, we were getting ready to make a very prayerful decision about walking forward in our faith with God surrounded by our new church community.

That Sunday, we also found out we were expecting for the first time.  As many of you know, we had been trying for quite awhile, and had undergone a lot of infertility testing that spring.  To find out we were pregnant on the same day we chose to be baptized was miraculous.

Just a few weeks after our baptism in water, we miscarried that baby.  That season marks one of the most difficult times of suffering in my life.   I was heartbroken, confused, scared, and lost.  I was going through baptism in fire.

That summer, we were on the cusp of choosing to become members of the church and start officially tithing.  Over the 5 years of our marriage, we hadn’t actually ever become members of a church.  We were always moved too quickly by the Air Force to settle in!  In July, we decided to become members of City Life Church and wrote our first tithing check.  We experienced baptism into the body of Christ.  And wow did that feel good.  We were committed to this church and these people.  We were home.

About the third week in July, I traveled to camp in Pennsylvania with our church’s youth group as a volunteer leader.  I was excited to get out of Hampton and be distracted from the pain we had suffered that summer.  I had no idea how God would meet me at camp.  I thought I was there for the kids!  Apparently, God had bigger plans for me.  About the second night of camp, the lead speaker had an altar call for the leaders to come forward and receive prayer.  I resisted at first.  But as soon as I went up there, the pastor came and put his hand over my head and prayed about my life ahead of me being filled with children.  I fell to my knees and wept.  He had no idea who I was or the loss I had just suffered.  I was overcome with the Father’s love for me and received baptism of the Holy Spirit and my spiritual language.

Now, I realize that at this point, I may have lost of some of you.  You may question what I’m talking about or maybe I’m “stretching the truth” a little bit.  That’s ok.  I realize this topic is heavy, and may not be received well from someone who hasn’t learned about baptisms in this way.  If that’s the case, I really urge you to listen to the sermon I linked above, and reach out to me with questions. 

Don’t let your confusion and doubt keep you from seeing the miracles of God.

Do some research.  Listen to some podcasts.  Ask some questions.  Have these baptisms been present in your life?

What’s even the significance of me sharing such personal details with you all?   Why does this matter?

Honestly, I’m not sure.  I’m not sure what you’ll get out of it.  Maybe you’ll just be left in awe like I was on Saturday night of the revelation God can drop on you in just a moment in church.  Maybe you’ll reflect on your own life and see if these baptisms have been present.  And if not, how come? 

What I am sure of is this: God loves you.  He loves you so much that he desires a life of baptism for you.  A life of immersion.  Immersion into a faith walk with Him.  Immersion into His church.  Immersion into a life of suffering so He can show you His glory and goodness and care for you in those seasons.  Immersion into empowerment by the Holy Spirit to carry out His ministry so all may know His love.

Don’t miss out on this love.

In light of Valentine’s Day tomorrow, I encourage you to think about writing a love note to God.  Let Him know what you feel about Him and commit to placing Him back on the throne of your heart. 

The summer of 2014 was a very transformative, powerful, life-changing summer for me.  Since then, my eyes have been opened wide to the ways God moves every day.  I pray with a boldness I didn’t have before those baptisms.  I have a faith that is unshakable. 

As we are about to welcome our third baby into this family this coming summer, exactly 5 years later, I am in awe of the truth of the words spoken by that pastor at camp.  God knew what I needed that night to restore my hope. 

I hope this testimony reaches you where you’re at, and you’re heart is open. 

All to God’s glory,

Amy